Be, Do, Have
Share“BE” in the above context means to ‘act like something, be a doctor, be a footballer, in other words, an adopted identity. “DO” means to carry out an activity in that identity “HAVE” means possession of something, but not necessarily legal ownership. BE, DO and HAVE is a very obscure, but real concept of life, from which no- one is exempt, not even the lowly street beggar. Those...Lear More
The Truth About Depression
ShareDepression is arguably the single most common malady affecting society today. Like the common cold, it affects young and old, rich and poor, blue-collar workers and white-collar workers, labourers and executives and colour or creed is no barrier; all are depression’s potential victims. In medicine, Depression has various classifications that are given specific names, such as Post...Lear More
An Introduction to Intellectual Well-Being
Share‘I’m a born loser!’ ‘I can’t get it out of my mind. I feel so guilty!’ ‘I’m not good enough!’ ‘Why do I keep doing that?’ ‘I wish I had his confidence.’ ‘If only they knew how I really feel!’ ‘That’s how life is, and the sooner I accept it, the happier I will be.’ ‘I feel so useless!’ ‘Who really am I?’ Deep down within so many of us, amongst the clutter of negative thoughts and actions,...Lear More
Personal Productivity and Life’s Activities
SharePersonal productivity is the key to wellbeing, self-worth and contentment. Nothing will happen in the universe unless there is some energy applied to it and although that has been covered in earlier writings, what has not been covered is that for personal activity, a decision to do it must precede the activity. As far as I am aware a person’s activities, no matter what they are, have...Lear More
Discover Who You Really Are
ShareWho am I? Th is is a question often pondered, but the infinitely more important question, what am I? is seldom asked. The answer to the latter is that you are a unit of human energy, the significance of which lies within the realms of science. Energy, including human energy, is indestructible, and therefore so are you. So, if you are indestructible, you are also immortal. Therefore the...Lear More
Pleasure Moments
ShareThe genus of this article was a recent conversation with Sherrie Hatfield during which the subject of life’s pleasures and specifically pleasure moments came up. I do not remember specifically what prompted me to voice it but I said, “You cannot address pleasure moments as an item in a session.” The simplistic explanation of why this is the case, so impressed Sherrie that she insisted...Lear More
Certainty of Self
ShareThere is a gulf of infinite dimension between “Knowing” and “Knowing About”. The former is ‘subjective’ whereas the latter is obviously ‘objective’. Subjective refers to a person’s own universe, their own thoughts, ideas and experiences, but objective refers to that which is outside the realms of one’s own universe. This is very pertinent as regards the personal awareness of who we really...Lear More
The MEM Care Plan During COVID-19
ShareHello. How are you feeling? The Global COVID-19 epidemic has impacted all our lives with unforeseen changes and challenges. The worldwide sense of uncertainty created fears within us about our survival and the survival of others. At the moment, a lot of people are feeling overwhelmed: job loss; job security; concerns about food supply and other essentials; the stress; and worry about...Lear More
Healing Relationships Using MEM
ShareCivilisation revolves around relationships. They are the very woof and warp of life – the very fabric of life. Relationships are the driving force of survival, whether it is the physical connection between a male and a female in the creation of progeny (survival of the species); the connection between a manager and a staff member; the connection between a player and a team captain, or a...Lear More